The Reason For The Season

Now there were in the same country shepherds living out in the fields, keeping watch over their flock by night. And behold, an angel of the Lord stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were greatly afraid. Then the angel said to them, "Do not be afraid, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. And this will be the sign to you: You will find a Babe wrapped in swaddling cloths, lying in a manger." And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying: "Glory to God in the highest, And on earth peace, goodwill toward men!" So it was, when the angels had gone away from them into heaven, that the shepherds said to one another, "Let us now go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has come to pass, which the Lord has made known to us." And they came with haste and found Mary and Joseph, and the Babe lying in a manger. Now when they had seen Him, they made widely known the saying which was told them concerning this Child. And all those who heard it marveled at those things which were told them by the shepherds. But Mary kept all these things and pondered them in her heart.
Luke 2:8-19



Saturday, December 5, 2009

Roots and Wings

In one week both my children will have turned in all their papers and taken their final exams.  My son will be done with his FIRST semester of college and my daughter will be finished with her LAST semester of college. 

In just one week, my son will come home the triumphant college student. He has had lots of fun at college and made many new friends but he has also worked very hard and done well in his classes. He has grown and matured in many ways. I am so proud of my young man. For about a month, I will once again experience the joys of hearing loud music blasting from his room, of tripping over size 13 shoes while walking across the living room, of not being able to keep enough food in the house, and of finding the sink full of dishes when I thought everything was clean. It will be such a joy to have him home again and I will treasure the time because I know it will fly by and he will all too soon be heading back to college.


One week from today my daughter will have earned her BA and be an independent working woman. She has worked so hard to reach this point and I am so very proud of her. Last summer she worked long hours at her summer job in order to save the money to get into an apartment. Then she searched all over the area to find a cute little apartment that she could afford if she was very frugal. During her last semester she went to school full time and worked part time in order to be able to pay for her apartment and expenses. She encountered some obstacles that threatened to destroy her dream of staying in the Santa Cruz area, but God was faithful and ultimately moved mountains on her behalf. Then, in early November she set about looking for a full time job for after college.  She soon found one, the only problem was they needed her November 20. That didn't stop her. Since November 20 she has both worked full time and gone to school full time. She has shown herself to be a responsible, hard working woman. I am so very proud of all that but what blesses me the most is that she is a woman of integrity and faith in God. I am blessed beyond words.

Still, there is a bittersweet feeling in knowing that my little girl is all grown up, graduated from college and living on her own. When she went off to college there was always the sense that she would someday come back home at least for a while, but now there is a finality.  Any visits home will be just that, visits.

When we were raising our children we tried to give them both roots and wings.  So now that our precious daughter is flying solo and doing a good job of it too, why do I get a lump in my throat? 

 






If you are reading this on facebook there is a video that probably didn't transfer, you can see it at http://happymomsramblings.blogspot.com/.  Look for the post titled Roots and Wings from December 5, 2009.

This was originally posted at http://happymomsramblings.blogspot.com/

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

100 years

If he were still alive, my father would be 100 years old today. That's right, my dad was born on December 2, 1909.
Sam Ramon Ramos, December 2, 1909 - June 29, 2004


He spent many years as a seaman and served in WW II as a Merchant Marine.

He and my mom met during the summer of 1949

They got married on June 25, 1950

My dad with my older sister Patricia

My dad with my sister and I.

My dad and I

My mom and dad

My wedding, June 26, 1982

My mom and dad


At Disneyland with their grandchildren

A wonderful grandpa

Remembering his years of service in WWII

Love you dad!

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

College Life

So this is what all the money we are spending for college is going for:



Each floor of the boys' dorm performed and the girls voted for the floor they thought did the best. This video is my son's floor. They won the vote, of course. You can see my son about halfway through. He is the second black shirt from the left.



If you are reading this on facebook you can find the video at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkQMNPFmdIY



This is a post from http://happymomsramblings.blogspot.com/.

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Well I Did It!

50,000 words in 30 days, that was the goal. Now at the end of November I have very sore fingers and 56,114 words that comprise what is really only the rough draft of a novel. I think I have a pretty good story in seed form. There is much work that is left to be done. I will probably spend the next several months proof-reading, reworking and improving what I have written. There is one whole sub-plot that I really want to strengthen. Other parts were easier to write so I glossed over this one sub-plot. However, if written right I think it could be a very powerful part of the whole. So while I may have won the NaNoWriMo challenge I still have a lot of work to do. I have to admit I enjoyed the process far more than I expected. I might be doing more writing just because it is fun.

A few of you have asked questions about my novel so here are the answers:

Title: No Two More Different

Genre: Christian Romance

Synopsis: Twenty-year old Jason has been in and out of trouble with the law since he was in his early teens. With an alcoholic and abusive father and a mother too intimidated to protect her son, Jason is full of anger and hate. When he meets sixteen year old Rachel, the smart but naive Christian home-schooled girl who has always been curious about the rougher, edgier world outside the safety of the Christian Home-school bubble she had been raised in, he has never been more enchanted by anyone before and is determined to win her. Will Rachel be drawn away from the values she was raised with or will Jason discover the Truth that makes Rachel so special? What will happen when Rachel meets Peter, the handsome popular young man from a wealthy church-going family? Will Rachel sacrifice her heart’s desire for what looks right and everyone expects? And what of Rachel’s parents, Mike and Susan, the devoted Christian couple who have grown apart during the busy years of earning a living and raising children? Now that their children are leaving the nest will they rediscover each other again or will they live the rest of their lives as lonely, strangers in the same house?

Some of you have asked when you can you read it: If you really want to read it I will let you after I have finished all the reworking that needs to be done. Someone once that that an author never really finishes a work they just finally reach a point where they give up trying to improve it any more. So when I give up I will let you know. I may at some point want others to proof-read it and give their input. If you might be interested in doing that some time in the future then please let me know.